Why do men have hand problems!

Why do men have hand problems! I work with you for over 5 years. You don't have the right to grab my arm. I told you once before and I'm telling you again. I'm going to kick you. I have another coworker he like to sneak up on people and stick his finger in the women ears. That's gross. He did that to me once and I push him so hard he felled backward. There a new security guard in the buliding he came behind me and put his hand on my shoulder telling me I look stress I need a massage omg. I told him don't do that he got offended. He said all the other girls don't mind. I told him I'm not the other girls. Why do men have hand problems!!