Relationship

I'm in a marriage he never around. We don't live together. When you have a problem he not there to comfort me. When im sick he not there to take care of me. He avoids my problems. The marriage is going sour. We are having major issues. He doesn't want to fix it. Maybe he doesn't know how to. Is it my fault i like someone else. Is it his fault cause he not around. I want to be in a relationship you there for him and he there for you. Have dinner together and cuddle up to watch a movie. That doesn't happen cause he always play with his video games and I'm watching my shows. He set in his way. I only see him once a week and when we do see each other we always verbal arguing. He doesn't defend me when his mom is bitching about me in the background. He just stand there and I have to ask him to translate what she is saying. He's always blaming me for helping my brother. He hates my brother he always telling me my brother is a lost cause. I told him my brother has problems but someone needs to watch him. If no one watch him it's gets worse. I told him my brother defends me sometimes. I told him his brother put him down and you can't compare brother's. I also told him not everyone who did time is bad. He doesn't understand that. He thinks everyone who did time is bad. When he meets my guys friends I can't tell him most of them did time. He tell me not to hang out with them. I grew up with these guys. They did bad things in the past but they are not like that now. You can't judge someone cause they did time.
I met someone I like. I think he knows I like him cause I'm always doing the calling. How do you get to know someone when sometimes he avoid you. I don't even know if he likes me or not. I try avoid him for a couple of months. I thought maybe i wont like him anymore.That didnt work.I still like him. I started to call him again. I gave him my number but he never calls. He knows my scheduled.  Is he afraid to call cause he thinks he get me in trouble. I'm confused about men. Why do I have so many problems in my life. Can I have a normal relationship.