How did I end up in this situation!

My best friend call me up and ask me did I ask my husband about our marriage. I told her he always avoid the conversation. She told me I have to put my foot down. She said I should of put my foot down a long time ago. She another person who notice something was wrong. When she saw us together we were always cursing at each other. Couples do argue but it's getting out of hand. At first I didn't think anything was wrong. I ignore it for a couple years now. My father always telling me we will get divorce one day. I ask my husband does he want to divorce or separate for now. I never got a answer. How did I end up in this situation!

Since I don't see my husband that offen. I end up like someone. Does that happen to people 

When you don't see your partner?  I'm always calling him and he knows i like him. I feel like im in high school again. I'm always doing the calling and the guy didn't feel the same way. When I do ask a personal question he avoids answering it. I don't know much about him. That's why I ask him.